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girl gone

dissociation is fucking wild

it’s just a part of your brain

checking out as a way to cope

because everything around you

just hurts too much

 

and of course

when i was 10, 12 years old

i had no idea that dissociating was a thing

i only knew that for months at a time

who i was a person

didn’t exist

 

i didn’t feel real

the only thing that i felt

was a deep hollowness

that went down past my guts

and into the very marrow

of my bones

 

so cold

fear and lack of sleep

because i killed myself in my dreams

and it felt so real

 

the only time i felt real

is when i made myself bleed

and so i did

again and again

 

and the vivid memory

of my therapist watching me go

through a box of bandaids

to cover the red mess

of my left arm

as i told her that i heard voices

in my head that weren’t mine

and saw things that

weren’t really there

 

and she told me i was

so nonchalant about it

and i laughed

because of course i was

how else was i supposed to be