raininginsun

How to Love Myself with a catholic Family

There’s no easy way to announce that 
I am 
who 
I am.

From trivial things, to the cores of my soul.
I will never be accepted, 
and the strings that form me bring tears to my parents eyes.

A simple stride for honesty 
takes my mother mute.
My father tells me I\'ll regret my future.
And my brother enters my room 
questioning why I would ever intentionally ruin my parents afternoon.

I just want to be honest, and not hide.
But either way, I cannot win.
It happens time and time again

And i’m trapped.
I cannot leave,
I cannot stay.

It’s this damned moon tide, 
pulling me forward
and thrusting me back.
Am I safe, or am I gone?

I pleaded myself that I would 
never 
use substances as an escape.

But I’m here I am with tears filling my collar,
begging to get high,
downing each drop,
wishing the edibles would kick in.

Could I hide in these childhood sheets forever
I would.

Instead I leave empty hearted.
Believing my crutch would last forever.
Breaking my heart
over and over again.
never understanding that dreams 
can only be that.

I love myself,
but I hate myself too.

How can I love myself when 
Even my family doesn\'t?

I\'m feeling so defeated.
Like I can never tell my parents a thing.
Like I\'ll have to live in the shadows forever.

I can’t go to church,
get a proper job,
or surrender my autonomy.

I just want to be happy.
But I cant cut my cake
and eat it too.

Make my parents happy,
Or die lost, despairing, and stubborn.