I show them to my friends.
They coo and cry \"OMG so cute!\"
Well, duh. I\'m a baby.
These are my pictures.
There I am, nestled in Mom\'s arm,
Bundled in a new blue and white polka-dot onesie.
Hair freshly trimmed,
Severing the uniform orphanage style
From my first 19 months.
There I am, stateside at last.
Being wheeled through the airport
In a navy stroller with a pink Pooh balloon
Tied to the handles. Every push is another
Foot farther from chapter one.
There I am, sprawled on Grammy\'s carpet,
Overwhelmed by toys, gifts, attention.
My first adventure in a kiddie pool.
Oh how refreshing! The California sun blisters,
And the Chinese dirt clings stubbornly to my chest.
They say a picture is worth
A thousand words, but what
About the missing ones? How many
Sentences, paragraphs, books did I lose?
The photo albums stashed
Within the recesses of my family\'s home
Are filled to the brim with snapshots
Of one joyful Asian child.
\"But where\'s the rest?
Where\'s the ones from when
I was born?\" Awkward pause.
The silence fills the gaps
In the picture collections.
They were not lost.
I was lost. Abandoned
By my mother who made
The non-existent choice
Between illegitimacy and hope.
No, they are not lost.
They just simply aren\'t there.
But I am. I am here in 2018,
And unlike those photos,
I have been found.