Hard as it may be; we must learn to forgive. Otherwise it is us who become bitter in the end. If you can’t forgive the ones who have hurt you, you stay stuck inside the same cycle of repeating your excuse. I’m not saying I don’t understand; I’ve had my own battle with forgiving some evil things; it’s a torturous prison. You can forgive without allowing the person back into your life. Forgiveness is for yourself; it’s a small sacrifice. Forgiveness doesn’t mean you are then weak; forgiveness means you put your trust in God completely!