~Nothing To Fix~
You Can’t Change People
But You Can Change Your Expectations!
You Can Set Boundaries & Make Decisions About
How Much Time & Effort You Want To Give To Them.
You Can Focus Your Attention, You Can Practice Acceptance & letting Go,
But You Can’t Mould Someone Into Who You Want Or Need Them To Be For You.
You Can’t Force Them To Make A Shift, Unless They Want To
Make A Shift Or Want To Change For You.
You Can’t Ask Them To Become Someone Different Than Who They Actually Are…..
You Shouldn’t Have To And….
And That Can Be A Painful Truth To Sit With.
No Matter How Much You Beg & Explain Things,
No Matter How Many Times You Say To Them About
What You Need & What Hurts, From That A Person
You Care About Can’t Show Up For You In The Way You Actually Need….
Sometimes, There’s No One To Blame And Nothing To Fix.
TT Chowdhury