how strange it is,
my friend,
to age and grow older
without you by my side
bending down to pull
up my socks this morning,
and my bum left shoulder
cracks in a way that didn’t
hurt then, but promised
to later
my left knee also cracks
when i go up stairs now,
and even though you can’t
tell right now, because i went
and shaved my head,
i’m starting to gray at the temples
i feel simultaneously the
oldest, and the youngest,
that i’ve ever been
on that day i woke up
and you had been gone for
sixteen years, it felt like that
first time i’d fallen and landed
on my back and for a terrifying
few seconds, i couldn’t breathe
i haven’t been able to
take a full breath
since the last time i saw you