Reassuring your woman that she is all you need; is the smallest act of kindness to you; but to her it puts her mind at ease. Reassuring your man that he’s your one and only; may not mean much to you but to him; it helps him feel less lonely. Reassurance seems petty especially after decades going strong; but sometimes we forget this; we assume he or she knows after so long. Some women have been hurt a time or two before. She may be deeply in love with you; sometimes she feels neglected; so tell her you care; reassure. His heart may have been stomped on way before you; to let him know where you are and who you’re with; it’s the least you can do. Over time he’ll appreciate and grow to to trust you more; in any long standing relationship or marriage; it helps to reassure.