It’s not suppose to hurt or cause confusion. It’s not suppose to break you down or feel like an illusion. His word says it is patient and it is kind. It does not play with someone else’s mind. It’s not suppose to hurt you in any way. True there will be trials; it won’t be perfect every day. It’s not suppose to belittle or make you feel unseen and not heard. That’s not how I understand it according to His word. Love doesn’t play games. Love is felt with the heart. Love heals. Love doesn’t tear someone apart.