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Disallowed Grief

The grief we’re not allowed to feel

Can somehow still be very real

Like how I cried for my best friends dog

When he peed on her leg

She knew it was love

12 years that boy had been chosen family

Who wiggled his whole self for his favourite Auntie

 

I think of the man behind the counter

That was an unexpected encounter

I came to return my mums medication

Another box ticked, I felt no hesitation

Professionally, he apologised for my loss

Then read the name on each little box

I noticed his eyes fill up with tears

Lyns gone? He whispered. I’ve known her years

 

We’re not supposed to take to our beds

And suffer the loss of our best friends pets

No time off work is permitted to heal

When you lose a customer who made you smile

The grief we’re not allowed to feel

Can somehow still be very real