someone aims to make u upset but them do something or have something or someone and your already mad from the person coming at you aggressively trying to make you mad and then tries to point out someone is jealous of you or tryna be in your business or being rude and your not just mad about them making you angry This scenario describes a manipulative tactic known as reactive abuse or baiting, where someone intentionally pressures, angers, or provokes you until you snap, only to then act as the victim and highlight your reaction to make you look like the problem