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The trust paradox

 

You need to do something with someone.

Yet, you are not sure you can trust him.

You have to check his trustfulness. You don’t trust blindly.

“he needs to gain my trust” your thoughts whisper in  your mind.

So you are being very very cautious…

He feels it!!!!

As result he develops alert mechanism like a hedgehog in a threat mode.

He sends nonverbal messages of “watch out” don’t get closer!!!

Now you are convinced you can’t trust him.

He can’t trust you!!!

 

How do you build trust? Each one of you asks.

Isn’t that the story of humanity? Sad, yet, we MUST.