My first boyfriend after my divorce, (19 years ago), approached me the other day on Facebook.
I had some moment of excitement like a flashback rinsing my being.
I smiled and liked the interaction.
I was thinking about the decisions we make in our life…
Like a growing tree with endless branches – we decide to take this branch and not the other.
Looking back at it, I sometimes play the game : “what if…”
What if I didn’t take that branch, or what if I continued and not jumped to an alternative one?
At the end of the journey – we’ll reach the top of our life tree.
This observation is not about regrets.
It’s looking back down the tree with all its branches and saying:
” what a nice journey. I don’t forget, all the people that moved me, special people, I’ve met”