ChrisIsShy

Dear Kids in 7th Grade

dear kids in 7th grade,

when you asked me if i was gay what did you think you were trying to do

we\'re you trying to offend me

if i told you the truth by saying yes what are you going to do next

are you going to apologize for asking as if being gay was a bad thing

what if i lied to you and said no will it matter to  you still then

because why does it matter if i\'m gay or not

 

dear boys in 7th grade,

when did you decide that the word gay is offensive 

when did you decide that it was ok to call the kid on the bus gay because they never talk 

when did you decide that anything feminine on another boy is gay

when did you decide that it was okay to hurt others 

what are you going to do if you find out that boy you\'ve been calling gay became so sad that he started to cut himself

are you going to apologize for calling him gay and move on to calling other kids other names

or are you going to officially stop at thinking that it\'s ok to call people names and just leave them alone 

 

dear girls in 7th grade,

when you found out i\'m gay when did you think it was ok to automatically start calling me your gay best friend/friend

when did you think it was ok to introduce me to people as your gay best friend/friend 

i have a name you know

when did you think it was ok to treat me like i\'m some sort of fashion accessory

i know you mean well and all but why do you think that you have to put the word gay in front of best friend/friend

have you ever stopped to think that maybe being gay doesn\'t define who someone truly is but just labels them

did you ever think that i have feelings too

what are you going to do if i confronted you about it

are you going to reply with a but it\'s true or are you going to apologize for it 

 

dear my entire school,

the word gay is not a profanity

it is simply just a label

a label that people choose to identify with

gay does not define anyone and their personality

it is not your place to label someone or something gay 

 

dear the labeled gay,

don\'t listen to them