Sex can be fun and physical, just a form of relaxation. For women is a matter of learning and not be ashamed of the sensations but be comfortable with your body. The fantasy in conjunction with physical stimulation is the best way. Fantasy gives you the power to your mind and physical stimulation gives you the power to your body. Even if mental and physical sex is good and healthy the best part of sex is not really the orgasm. Orgasm is just the end of pleasure. The real and delightful pleasure is being connected to your partner as long as possible. Is giving yourself into all the sensations and emotions that sex can produce. It creates a great connection to love between partners. Being connected sexually without having the release of an orgasm, your body and mind have the chance to experiment new sensations, to discover hidden secret pleasures, to explore a new field on your sexuality. By being connected for a longer time and being concentrated on your heart you can open the door for the transmutation of your sexual energy to a spiritual enlightenment.
Lucia