Are emotions feelings? In a certain sense; yes. But other then that, how can you figure sadness?
To be charming and graceful is well earned. To be yourself is one of the greatest things you can earn.
No matter;
No one can be their self. Only someone who lives in a deserted area alone can be, but then he may copy animals.
A non conformist is someone different. Only there are a lot of non conformist.
Just like an apple. When the tree yields fruit they all look round and they are. Only the color and taste are different.