MOTHERHOOD

On the customary calendar ‘s date celebration

that can be settled in different ways

according to locations

and, reminder celebration.

The Mother’s Day.

 

I only remember a passed away one, the rest ghosts, or more or less so.

What is motherhood?

A rose?

Were we born with motherhood built in?

We were not.

The motherhood may come through decades, it is not built in.

 

Once e former Afro French colleague of mine reminded me, that

I could be his mother.

 

He was a spoilt one, as raised.

Odd enough he used to ‘’serve’’ himself’’ first, pushing all women away

To get the best treats in the office, Dunuts, oranges, cream caramel.

Only once, I grabbed his clean white shirt.

 

I am not your mother! You are a father of 2. Vanish best detergent to clean it, and vanish

directly!

 

‘’Do not show any motherhood feeling, unless otherwise requested’’ but not even.

10 minutes sweet words, 10 minutes caress hand on shoulder is not motherhood.

Show it to a child protection, still not motherhood.

 

 

Motherhood is not built in.

Motherhood is learnt through the years.

Training is being requested to develop full motherhood.

Motherhood is not built in, neither is fatherhood.

It is learnt after extensive work through the years.

Motherhood is not cuddling and showing affection. Not enough.

Motherhood is not built in.

Some struggling hard to conceive, could not, craving to become mothers,

They might as well find out, they did enjoy it, or they did not like it,

once achieved.

Adoption could be an alternative to fill it in, but for you? Or for the other?

Once an old acquaintance of mine, unable to conceive adopted.

She found out, could not cope with it.

A psychological support was being requested.

 

We are mammals, aren’t we?

Yes, we are, to a certain extent.

Many animals eat each other, many mammals species do the same, in order to survive.

Animals do not destroy, or manipulate nature for their means.

 

We belong to the mammal’s species to a certain extent,

No one single animal has developed Artificial intelligence, and machines.

Motherhood should be trained, in order to discover what we can do.

Motherhood should be deployed, is it a natural instinct? It is not.

Many mothers kill their offspring for no reason. Those belong to our species.

Celebrate your mother’s day in your mind.

A sudden interest towards a younger man, is not motherhood.

 

A Rose to celebrate the Mother’s day on calendar day, for those who tried hard

And developed awareness, and had the chance to get it, to develop it.

 

Selfish is the man, who decides to make you mother, without becoming himself a father,

And the other way around!

Let’s celebrate the developed motherhood in ourselves, and most and foremost our

real mothers, we were born from, and raised by.

 

A Rose to our Mothers.