ABOUT LOLENINESS AND BEING ALONE

It is often believed that in other side of the river, ocean, being alone is hardly found.

It is often met in different ways, lived in different flavours.

Loneliness is considered as unpleasant, as a half empty glass.

In many regions, and

Lands I lived in….not so many loneliness is coped in different ways, the digital world is not

the only one.

Sea, taste the sea on your own.

Get sunbathes until you get sun burned.

Following greetings traditions to fill that so called ‘’gap’ ’in.

Do you have a purpose to get up? It is up to you to decide not to God!

Do you have a job to accomplish, you earn your living with?

Quite good.

You are half alone if you do not like it, you are not alone at all, if you do like it.

There are no soul mates you can chase, unless already madly in love

or attracted to.

Loneliness, being on your own, being alone

Options: shallow chats, in person or on line, for many, most.

many have no chances of being with themselves, they say. Fake.

They do, they always do. Exchanging information is not being with anybody deeply.

You are still on your own.

People going to the beach on motor bike every weekend in Italy, going to the restaurant alone in

London, or pubs. Going to café  alone in NI, strolling alone.

Doing jogging alone, praying alone in their creed church.

Playing a in park everywhere alone, or with their best companion, seldom a dog.

Drinking a fast coffee at the bar in Italy, alone, as well.

Travelling on a plane, train or bus……alone….short chat in Italy, ‘’have a good day’’

The same as London sometimes.

In the London underground, no talks most of the times, no phones, no signal.

In Belfast, ‘’see you later’’ which might probably mean ‘’see you in a month or so’’.

People chatting fair aloud in order to be heard.

Preachers who think they have the solution to all problems, JESUS.

Loneliness or being alone, or gatherings to run away from the first.

One hour or two, drinking, swallowing something. Probably listening

with no exchange neither of phone numbers nor email addresses.

Being on your own for me in Italy meant lying down on a large towel listening to music

for hours, on the beach…..swimming one hour or so.

Sweating so much, not time to think or thinking too much that if I were in a cooler temp place

I would feel better.

Getting older in Italy, mountain or sea sunbathing, a  friend or so.

Noisy chats, teenagers getting old or so.

Came to a cooler place for job spot that ended the nearly AD period, raining cats and dogs…

Child umbrella open, search to fill in your stomach in the cheapest or least dangerous way!

Smoking? You should not, you might die soon. No issue.

Looking after your health as many in order to spend my time to search the best health solution.

Reading a book at the library …

Many books.

Watching videos//// no interests.

Smelling fragrances that are like men, 80% of them can be cheap or very expensive but still do not

like them, quite normal, even if you had money.

Being alone on a web site. Trying to figure out what is going on.

How it works.

London parks full of young and less young people lying on the grass during heat waves.

Some of them alone.

Being alone…or..loneliness.

Coping with quite weirdo typology looking for issues, or …. making up some issue in order

to feel less lonely, I came across to some of them during my jobs.

Drinking alone in a café, bar, restaurant.

It is also true that there are many people in company of their loves, or siblings, but many are not.

You have to thank God if somebody sends you a short message, makes love to you during your life

span,

Feel the feeling of attraction and got astonished since you have been educated that love is

around the corner….

When you are old enough you just show it,.. no more chances? You do not know! That’s why is Love.

Unbearable lightness of being as a famous book, chase it and let it go.

Many, taking for granted any company of any kind….telling them off, providing suggestions.

Temporary shabby accommodations.

You order your mind, create your love and go on in your life path…..

Feel like if you have felt a love that made your write your life…..and flowers.

You have learnt the lesson, exception not a rule.

Some others have love, job, money, offspring and get depressed since blinded.

Blinded in their brains.

Some others believe that sharing the same interests is love, of course it is not.

Love is on the other side of your mind…. Unexpected…with nor reasoning and explanation.

100%.

As an exception, not a rule.

Has somebody ever kissed you in your life? Think about that from time to time.

Think about the eyes of the latest you attempted to love….

Whatever you do on your own is fine except, negative deeds.