You call this Love?

      When you degrade your woman with insults or degrading names; do you then say “I love you?” While her tears fall like rain? When you disrespect him in public or in front of his friends; do you quickly say “I love you?” And repeat the cycle once again? You call this love? Swearing and name calling? Not once in God’s word do I find Him calling me names I find appallingly. Is it love when a woman asks you to please stop speaking to her this way but you choose not to adhere her how it makes her feel?  Then you wonder why her heart has turned to steel. Don’t disrespect your man and bring outsiders into your disputes. Turn to God instead and allow Him to show you truth. Love doesn’t sound degrading or disrespectful in anyway. It’s patient, it’s kind, it honors each other no matter how heavy the rain.