Where do I find Joy

I was just wondering, where do I find joy?
When I was a child, I found it in a toy.
Then as I grew older, I found that a little strange.
All my thoughts and interests, they began to change.
I started finding joy, in another gender.
It was soft and loving, I found it very tender.
Now came my joy, in a small little Child.
I was filled with joy, It was beautiful and wild.
So if you are looking, wondering a bit.
I'll just say to you, joy is where you find it.