BRIAN & I ARE READING THE BOOK *MEN ARE FROM MARS ~ WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS*
UNDER STRESS LADIES become emotional & involved
THEY share their PROBLEMS which are halved ~ even if not solved
MAN becomes ~ inner focused & withdrawn .......
Opts out and retreats to His Cave forlorn !
If a MAN cant solve His PROBLEM ~ then He shelves it
And take on another ~ like climbing a MOUNTAIN
Ladies used to share their PROBLEMS at the FOUNAIN
TODAY they share them - In the Coffee Corner at the SALON or in the SAUNA !
LADIES want to SAVE their VILLAGE & COMMUNITY
MEN wants to save the PLANET for ETERNITY !
A LADY finds relief discussing PROBLEMS with her CLAN
MAN finds relief in Solo-Fixing ~ He is the archetypal D.I.Y SUPAMAN !
LADIES can understand & resolve their problems ~ by talking them THROUGH
IN RELATIONSHIPS we can resolve our DIFFERENCES ~ by talking about them TOO !
Thanks for visiting ~ comments welcome ~ Love Angela & Brian 🧡💚🧡💚🧡
JOHN GRAY published his BOOK in 1993 after interviewing 25,000 Individuals
about the Behavioural DIFFERENCES between MALE & FEMALE. 90% of them
agreed with the findings as published ! My experience @ 31 and working in a
Multicultural Society is that MEN & WOMEN do think (and act) differently about
many important issues. Consequently we try to solve our PROBLEMS & STRESSES
differently ! This works OK when you are SINGLE but problems can arise in a
MARRIAGE (according the my FEMALE FRIENDS). Trying to find a consensus between
Bottling up the problems (MAN) and discussing them frankly ~ with ones Female Friends.
Ladies have much in common and so have faced similar problems ! None of them have put
Me off Marriage (YET !) but they assure Me if I understand the DIFFERENCES between
YIN & YANG (in most Situations) I will better prepared ~ AMEN ~ Love A & B 🧡💙🧡
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A fine write B&A.
Yes, I was going to drop into a Men's Group (was I?!) to share a problem. I called the wrong day. it was the W.I. Meeting (Women's Institute) - they were scary! Even Fido ran off. heehee.
THANK YOU UNSUB ~ for taking the time to read & comment ! Brian & I do have an equal partnership and we will enjoy a very happy marriage together ! We all know from experience that MEN & LADIES are wired differently and respond differently in the same situation. It is understanding that both of our responses are equally valuable & important that makes for a successful marriage. And yes we do base our lives on that HOLY SCRIPTURES ~ The BIBLE !
Thanks again for your Comments & Poems
You always make us think ~ AMEN !
Yours ANGELA & BRIAN🧡💚🧡💚🧡
THANKS UNSUB ~ For your excellent advice ! The BIBLE tells us that EVE was an approprite & very suitable PARTNER for ADAM ! Brian & I do compliment each other ~ so perhaps that is all we need to know !
Ever your MPS FRIEND ~ ANGELA 🧡💚🧡
Peace & Joy for CHRISTMAS & 2020 !
In any marriage love must always come first, once that love has bound you together you become one and the differences that may be between man and woman negate themselves into obscurity. Go forward in you own love not the conclusions drawn from somebody else's point of view.
Andy
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