The manipulative partner always plays the role of a plotter who conspires with the enemy in time of war.
They usually align themselves with our difficult surrounding circumstances or our internal personal challenges.
This partner is more ferocious and destructive than the enemy itself at the time of combat.
Since these partners are aware of all the loopholes and weaknesses in their partner's psyche.
These weak loopholes that can facilitate the intrusion of our enemies.
Our enemies who can assume the abstract forms, such as our difficulties and tribulations or any tangible physical forms,
such as financial issues or chronic illness.
Because the majority of psychological weaknesses were formed in the psyche of the unfortunate victims during the early stages of their psychological development,
this weak emotional tenderness always remains attached to our deep-rooted fears and our repressed desires.
These deep-rooted fears and pent-up primary desires are the two sides of the same coin.
The only currency all manipulative partners use to deal with their victims.
Also, all these manipulative partners, despite their different styles and characteristics, share the same goal.
It is the psychological control over the souls of their partners,
and getting the upper hand in any given relationship.
Meaning, their partners should develop an emotional dependency upon them as the only source of their happiness and emotional satisfaction.
They often succeed in convincing their victims that they are worthless or merely a burden on the shoulder of the generous existence.
Therefore, they are the only and the unique gateway to happiness and survival of their victimized partners.
But it is truly shameful in this respect that the manipulative partners are themselves victims of great oppression and injustice.
Victims of great oppression and injustice because of what happened to them during their childhood or during their early stages of development.
But instead of thinking of their painful past as a lesson to offer educated help to themselves or the others in the battle of life,
they chose to ally with the forces of darkness, desiring to destroy themselves, which they have always hated,
and destroying the others.
The others who did not commit any sin except all their trust and love have been entrusted to them.
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'Since these partners are aware of all the loopholes
and weaknesses in their partner's psyche.'
that's the cost of making ourselves vulnerable
in the name of love,
always smart to avoid blinkered mindsets
it allows us the chance to escape quicker
if things go wrong,
we must treat life, like its a boxing ring
and the number one rule in the ring
'is to protect yourself, at All times!'..
a brave, personal write
impassioned and highly expressive,
thanks for choosing to share
Thank you my dear brother for your extremely wise words.
You have put it all in an exceptional brilliant statement when you said ''always smart to avoid blinkered mindsets it allows us the chance to escape quicker if things go wrong''.
Unfortunately, a huge number of people waste many years of their valuable life because they are not able to grasp the saving wisdom of such statement, and unable to comprehend the implicit philosophy of life as you have vividly described it as ''a boxing ring'' and our emotional safety must be one of our first priories during our battle of life.
Thank you really for sharing such wise experiences and concepts.
So many people on the attack these days... I just can't understand why they don't just walk away and go play in another sandbox rather than trying to decimate others. This was a troubling read because it so true of so many.
Unfortunately, some people resort to devaluing or underestimating the true value of others in order to enhance their mental image of themselves as a kind of psychological defense mechanism in their conscious or unconscious mind, and of course the manipulative partners are no exception in this case.
Because exercising their manipulative, influential control provides them with perverse power and a sort of control over their unwary partners and enhances their shaky self-esteem.
Thank you so much for your at the point remarks.
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