~Nothing To Fix~

~Nothing To Fix~

You Can’t Change People

But You Can Change Your Expectations!

You Can Set Boundaries & Make Decisions About

How Much Time & Effort You Want To Give To Them.

 

You Can Focus Your Attention, You Can Practice Acceptance & letting Go,

But You Can’t Mould Someone Into Who You Want Or Need Them To Be For You.

 

You Can’t Force Them To Make A Shift, Unless They Want To

Make A Shift Or Want To Change For You.

You Can’t Ask Them To Become Someone Different Than Who They Actually Are…..

You Shouldn’t Have To And….

And That Can Be A Painful Truth To Sit With.

 

No Matter How Much You Beg & Explain Things,

No Matter How Many Times You Say To Them About

What You Need & What Hurts, From That A Person

You Care About Can’t Show Up For You In The Way You Actually Need….

Sometimes, There’s No One To Blame And Nothing To Fix.

TT Chowdhury