The Paradox of Living

Tristan Robert Lange

Just because
You lived
In the moment,
Doesn't mean you captured it.
 
Just because
You captured
The moment
Doesn't mean you lived in it.
 
© 2025 Tristan Robert Lange. All rights reserved.
 
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  • Caring dove

    Sometimes it can be difficult to be in the moment .. and those experiences can sometimes feel distant from us .. can be nice to have photos to look back on (

    • Tristan Robert Lange

      Indeed, it sure can! I have many that I have taken over the year and I am so glad i did. Thank you so much, my friend. I appreciate your time and support. 📸🧠⏳🙏

    • Teddy.15

      I feel that this really relates to me today, I really appreciate it very much. 🌹

      • Tristan Robert Lange

        Yay! Synchronicity! You are most welcome, dearest Teddy. I am glad that it worked out to be relatable and relevant to you today. 📸🧠⏳🙏 Thank you so much, my friend. Truly appreciated!

      • sorenbarrett

        Good title for this poem Tristan. So true it is we often have one or the other and like a margarita without the mix or without the tequila it is not a margarita.

        • Tristan Robert Lange

          So true indeed. Thank you so much, my dear friend. I am glad the title and the poem worked. Much appreciated! 📸🧠⏳🙏

          • sorenbarrett

            Most welcome

          • Cheeky Missy

            Rather, the inherent conundrum of social media, specifically, Instagram. Shall I document this exquisite moment via the camera, or shall I rather live it to the fullest? Dang! You've captured it via words and I am framed, am I? This beauty in brevity was my argument for why I neither bother nor will go along with the trend of photographing your dinner plate and posting it on social media, or no, I'm caught...I did, but despised myself for it. Argh. You've got me. Or? Beautifully rendered in brevity with a tasteful touch of imagery and an almost painfully haunting poignancy. Thank you for sharing.

            • Tristan Robert Lange

              LOL! I confess, I am guilty as charged there, too. But like you, it annoys me and so I haven't done it in A LONG TIME. LOL! Thank you so much, Missy. Glad it delivered! Much appreciated 📸🧠⏳🙏

            • ElizabethMoroz

              Interesting commentary on the digital age we live in and the philosophical inquiries into thee nature of “being”. You captured this well and with concise brevity. sincerely Elizabeth

              • Tristan Robert Lange

                Wow! Thank you so much, Elizabeth. I am glad that the poem, in its brevity, delivered. Thank you for your time and your analysis. Much appreciated! 📸🧠⏳🙏

                • ElizabethMoroz

                  My pleasure, this was a very clever and layered piece of work and implies much room for philosophical pondering, the title is excellent. Well done again. I look forward to reading more of your work. Sincerely, Elizabeth

                  • Tristan Robert Lange

                    Thank you, my friend!

                  • Friendship

                    Well said, your poem aims to provoke thought about the quality of experiences in modern life, encouraging readers to seek a balance between living fully and documenting their lives. It serves as a reminder to appreciate the present moment rather than fixate solely on capturing it for later reflection.

                    • Tristan Robert Lange

                      💯 Totally. Thank you, so much, my friend for your understanding and astute analysis. Much appreciated! 📸🧠⏳🙏

                    • Tony Grannell

                      What a sagacious verse, petite yet dynamic, composed in a most winsome manifestation. To be of the moment, is one of my philosophies in life, the other is: how to be of the moment? An excellent verse.

                      Do take care now,

                      Tony.

                      • Tristan Robert Lange

                        Thank you so much, my friend! Your support and analysis inspires me, truly. Much appreciated, Tony! 📸🧠⏳🙏

                      • Priya Tomar

                        So true.
                        Deep philosophy lies in these lines....

                        • Tristan Robert Lange

                          Thank you so much, my friend. Really appreciate your time and support! 📸🧠⏳🙏

                        • Poetic Licence

                          So true you have to feel life not just document it, great write

                          • Tristan Robert Lange

                            Totally. Thank you so much, Tobani, for your understanding, my friend! Much appreciated! 📸🧠⏳🙏

                            • Poetic Licence

                              You are very welcome

                            • Thomas W Case

                              Ahh...The paradox. Superb work.

                              • Tristan Robert Lange

                                Indeed! Thank you so much, Thomas! Glad it delivered, my friend! 📸🧠⏳🙏

                              • Salvia.S

                                I love how this captures the tension between being present and trying to hold onto a moment. Short, but really powerful. Very nicely written dearest Tittu ❤️ 🌹
                                A fave as well 🌹

                                • Tristan Robert Lange

                                  Thank you so much, dearest Salvia! I am so glad you caught the tension. Your time, friendship and your support are truly inspirational to me. Much appreicated, my friend! 📸🧠⏳🙏

                                • Bella Shepard

                                  Life truly is one big paradox, thank God we have poetry to make sense of it. Loved the write, and the paradox. I could really use a pair-of-docs write now. lol

                                  • Tristan Robert Lange

                                    Thank God, indeed! Hear hear! I am so glad the poem and its paradox delivered! LOL! I love docs and got a new pair of platforms back in February! Hope a new pair comes your way too! Thanks for your time and support, my friend! 📸🧠⏳🙏

                                  • orchidee

                                    Just because Popeye..... oh, don't finish that! lol.

                                  • arqios

                                    Your lines carve open that narrow seam between presence and remembrance, showing how the very act of holding fast can push the living moment just out of reach. I feel that rift in my own life:
                                    I’ve chased sunsets with a phone in hand only to wonder why the light felt colder when I finally watched the playback.
                                    And I’ve lain on grass, eyes unfiltered, heart thumping to the hum of insects, yet later fumbled for words when asked “What was it like?”
                                    Your paradox reminds me that the truest capture isn’t a pixel or a phrase, but a muscle memory; a humming in the chest that no photograph can steal away.
                                    Thank you, Tristan, for holding that tension so cleanly. I’d love to hear where you find yourself more at home in the instant you live, or the one you return to? Or both in their own unique way?

                                    • Tristan Robert Lange

                                      Wow...thank you for this, my dear friend. Your own reflection, especially the phone-in-hand sunset and the unworded hum of grass and insect song, mirrors so many of my own half-held moments and that is the reflection that sparked this poem.

                                      To your question…it’s one I still wrestle with. I think there’s a strange in-betweenness where I dwell—where I don’t fully feel at home in either the now or the after. Sometimes the moment feels more real in memory, as if my soul didn’t catch up to it until later. Other times, I know I was fully there—but what’s left is a kind of longing that can’t be translated. So, I think I’m learning that both are sacred: the lived and the recalled, even in their incompleteness. But the paradox remains. 🤣

                                      Thank you for honoring the paradox and holding it with such care, my friend. 🙏

                                      • arqios

                                        The paradox of existing, a strange comfort and familiarity, my own personal version of it remains still with me. To that end, super relatable. And the poem resonates, which is why I was wondering. 🙏🏻🕊️

                                        • Tristan Robert Lange

                                          Yes, indeed. Thank you for wondering and caring to ask. For me, these types of engagements are what make writing poems so rewarding. I am sure you feel the same way! Much appreciated, my friend!

                                          • arqios

                                            Indubitably! Rewards that keep giving and regenerating🌱🌲🎄

                                            • Tristan Robert Lange

                                              For sure!

                                            • NinjaGirl

                                              I find the first verse doesn't always need to happen. Though without capturing we are prone to forget, good memories will reach us someday, even when long forgotten.



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