S/he may be provocative in the way s/he looks
S/he may initiate the flirt and be proactive in the act.
Yet at some point, and it doesn’t matter which of her /his mind clouds streams:
Thoughts, emotions, imaginations, memories beliefs or dreams,
Will cause her/him to say out of the blue- :” wait stop.. I don’t want this!”
And you as her/his partner, almost reached climax of heavens bliss,
Be prepare to back down, from your bodymindspirit sexual inspiring process
Even if it makes you angry, frustrated or even nauseous.
Because remember my friend the next day what will count, is that s/he said: “I didn’t want this”
And if you didn’t stop – you will be accused of wrong doing and amiss.
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Thanks for sharing this AVI ~ it is very important message ~ mainly for MEN ~ in an age of increasing permissiveness. In relation to my relationships with FEMALES my Mother advised me to always be very hygienic ~ gentle and to always let the Lady decide the extent of the encounter. I am always gentle (and this pays dividends !) very hygienic and if a Lady says NO I always accept her decision. One of the horrors of YOU TUBE is that Young Men have the impression 1. That Females are always begging for it and 2. That anal ~ oral and group sex are the norm ~ and 3. That even "rough rape" is on the menu ! In my book ~ and I deal with a lot of damaged TEENS (mainly Female) Rape is never excusable and Men are responsible ~ And for me "Rape of a Virgin" is the ultimate crime and deserve the ultimate penalty ! Responsible Governments should ban sexplicit material (live & cartoons) from YOU TUBE especially that in which females are treated as less than animals ! Thanks for raising the issue of NO means NO ! Men of course will seek to override a Lady's morals with drugs & alcohol and money etc ! ~ Sometimes I am ashamed to be a MAN ~ Sadness & Hugs ~ BRIAN
my dear... sometimes there is a gray area... manipulation... from both sides, therefore... one should listen to words and if they echo NO, STOP!!! the end of the game.
hugs & love Brian
Your words resonate well , to be seen and contemplated before there is a need . One should always have a plan or train of thought , thought out way before the moment of passion . Much like an emergency evacuation route to safety .
right Swingline... realy is vague sometimes...sensitivity is needed...
Kudos for writing giving an excellent perspective on this sensitive subject.
thank u dear Augustus
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