Big boys don't cry

Tony36

Big boys don't cry

Many young men are told this in their youth

By fathers

By uncles

By other guiding lights

 

The truth is

Big boys do cry

When they are hurt

Only children hold it in

 

Because so many have heard those words

They fail to have an outlet

They fail to truly grow

So when the world hurts them

They fight back

They lash out

They become violent 

 

Overgrown children scared of being seen as weak

But

They fail to understand the true damage they do to themselves 

As well as all those around them

 

Big boys don't cry

What a lie

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  • arqios

    Cry when there is no audience, no witnesses to what was deemed weakness. In many cases it still is. 🙏🏻🕊️

    • Tony36

      Thank you

    • Tristan Robert Lange

      What a lie indeed. More men need to be reading your poetry, Tony! Thanks for the message! 🌹👏

      • Tony36

        Thank you

      • sorenbarrett

        A most modern view indeed. Yes men have always cried on the inside but not until recently on the outside. Stereotypes Very British not to cry, Very Italian to cry. Loved the poem

        • Tony36

          Thank you

        • hzugman

          You couldn't be more on point. I'm a big boy (85) who can't cry because I took those words to heart in my youth and they now live in my subconscious. I'm sure that there are many others.

          • Tony36

            Thank you

          • David Wakeling

            Indeed that is so true.Those who shed tears are those who care.Important poem

            • Tony36

              Thank you

            • Poetic Licence

              A well written write on an important issue, nicely done

            • Goldfinch60

              Big boys do cry and I am one of them, I am very emotive in my life and show it to all. Fine words Tony.

              Andy

              • Tony36

                Thank you



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