Sex can be fun and physical, just a form of relaxation. For women is a matter of learning and not be ashamed of the sensations but be comfortable with your body. The fantasy in conjunction with physical stimulation is the best way. Fantasy gives you the power to your mind and physical stimulation gives you the power to your body. Even if mental and physical sex is good and healthy the best part of sex is not really the orgasm. Orgasm is just the end of pleasure. The real and delightful pleasure is being connected to your partner as long as possible. Is giving yourself into all the sensations and emotions that sex can produce. It creates a great connection to love between partners. Being connected sexually without having the release of an orgasm, your body and mind have the chance to experiment new sensations, to discover hidden secret pleasures, to explore a new field on your sexuality. By being connected for a longer time and being concentrated on your heart you can open the door for the transmutation of your sexual energy to a spiritual enlightenment.
Lucia
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Malu (Pseudonym) (
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- Comment from author about the poem: Just a different view about sex and orgasm. The sexual energy transmutation. Building energy for spiritual enlightenment.
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Who is Lucia? This is a well done introspection of the deeper level of sex ... appreciated and understood mostly by women. Any man who aspires to being a 'great lover' should pay attention.
Well done, Malu!
Thanks Louis. I'm Lucia. My name is Maria Lucia. Thus the junction Malu. In my country we normally use the second name but here in US they use the first name. I've created a pseudonym because when they call me Maria I don't recognize myself there.
Interesting! Thanks, Malu/Lucia. Lucia is a lovely name.
Thanks Louis.
Beautifully and openly worded Malu. Surprises me how awful some peoples description of their physical love-life has been. It's such an important part of loving and so pleasureable for both partners. If one believes in sin then it's a sin not to explore and educate yourselves about mutual pleasures and fulflling your partners desires and fantasies. Pleasure is a good thing. My comments here are applicable to within a loving relationship and not encouraging anyone to anything for purely physical reasons outside such circumstance.
Thank you Dusk. The world have changed a lot and not for the better. We have good things from the evolution in technology but the ruge freedom people think they have today is compared with a chaos. They slave themselves and think it is freedom. I talk about the drugs and grupal sex that is normal among the young now a days. It is rather sad.
This is a wonderful expression of what sex should be for both partners and the love that the two share. This kind of connection I think, is the "superglue" of a longlasting relationship. This is tastefully written and I thank you for sharing, Malu!
Thanks Christina. Thus is the kind of sex we should live. Sex with purpose. Thanks for stopping by and read.
This was such a great read and I love both Maria and Lucia but I shall always know you as dear Malu
Thank you Michael. I appreciate your visiting.
OBRIGADO ALMA MALU ~ You have opened a Pandora's Box here ! One thing I learned as Teenager (from older GIRLS) was that Ladies like to cum before coitus ~ to lubricate their petals and vagina. I learned this was called foreplay ~ some Men want to jump right in before the Lady is ready ! Also Ladies can cum several times during coitus ~ if the Man is gentle and loving. When Man comes it is the END ~ for a period of time and some Man just want to "cum & go" which leaves the Lady dissatisfied ~ which is sad. For a LADY ~ AFTERGLOW is just as important as FOREPLAY. Many MEN seem ignorant of this factor After this you should shower together to complete the Cycle of Intercourse which takes about 2 hours (or more !) In my opinion A QUICKIE really degrades a LADY and demesnes a MAN. Beacuse I am only 34 ~ i can "make love" for a long time without coming ~ hours in fact. Young Men often cum too quickly and then stop and miss out on the Spiritual Enlightenment and also make love in inappropriate places ! I agree with all you say INTERCOURSE is often unsatisfying for both sexes (especilly Females) because it is in the wrong place at the wrong time and much too quick ! Thanks for caring and sharing ~ much food for thought ! Your Loving Brother BRIAN XOXOX
Brian my brother, what I'm talking about here and seems like no one understood because maybe I did not explain enough. It is all about not having an orgasm and staying connected as much as possible. When I say connected I mean the penis inside the vagina without too much moviment. But accoplad. It is all about the. Transmutation of the sexual energy building it day after day having sex without a orgasm. Without losing your sexual energy. There are some mantras involved in this practice. It is called tantric sex. Seems like no one ever heard about this. That is fine though because it is not common. Thanks my younger brother. You are very young. To tell you the truth, you could be my son. I think I'm going to begin calling you baby Brian.
OBRIGADO MAMA MALU ~ Thanks for adding a little further clarity to your Poem ! I have heard of Sexual Meditation and indeed in a sense experienced it. Because ANGELA 28 (A Physio & A Masseuse) and I are not married ~ and only sleep together about twice a week ~ we are not trying for a BABY ~ so some times we ae both asleep before I cum ~ OK ~ but I remain inside her ! She is on the pill so we always make love \"bareback\" ! Because when I cum it drains my sexual energy (and appetite) I consciously try not to cum to prolong the intimacy and togetherness of being conjoined through my \"love wand\" and her \"love tunnel\" perhaps we are sub~consciously practicing TANTRIC SEX ! I know there are websites on it ! I will discuss it with ANGELA when i see her tomorrow ! BABY LOVE ~ BRIAN XOX
i FEEL MY APPROACH TO SEX ~ Slow ~ Gentle and Female Centered and NOT Male Centered and Meditative is already very TANTRIC ~ BRIAN XOX
There you go. Thanks for understanding it. Love you baby Brian.
There is a big difference between 'having sex' and 'making love'. What you are writing about is 'making love' where the physical is only one aspect of the whole and where the mental, the feelings, and the soul are actually much more important, making orgasm seem rather like an after-thought. I am not talking about platonic love, but love-making where each partner is more concerned with pleasing the other partner than pleasing him/herself. Great writing and great contribution to an interesting discussion, Malu!
Good write. I agree with what Fred has said, it is making love that is the important thing, showing th love you have for each other in a physical way to augment the combing of souls in a wonderfully loving relationship.
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